According to my Facebook profile I have a lot of friends.
A lot of these friends are pretty girls.
A lot of these pretty girls are younger than me.
I stop myself from doing things that would hurt them, but it would be easier if someone else stopped me.
I hope that all the pretty young girls that I crave always have good boyfriends so that I have no opportunity to get involved.
(Before you start to wonder, I'm not talking about any pedophiliac thoughts here, they're simply younger than I think is right for someone my age to be interested in. In that they're younger than my brother. That's been my rule for a while now. My rule used to be, if they were only younger than me then they were too young, but I think I'm slipping.
But I'll never slip that far.)
I got to know a girl over the last few days that is the same age as my brothers girlfriend. Well ok she's a little older, but she's still a fair throw younger than I should be thinking about. According to my rule.
She has a boyfriend. Thankfully.
I hope she and him are happy because I know that I could make her happy if he wasn't there. But my brain stops me from wanting that.
Thanks brain.
I know another girl that is even younger than the first girl. She's absolutely gorgeous, so is the first girl. Being around them is like being on the set of a movie. The younger girl is in even more danger than the older one. I'll call her Girl 2.
Girl 2 likes to dance. She also likes to flirt with older boys.
I don't think girl 2 realises the dangers of her beauty. But she definitely knows she's beautiful.
This weekend a boy younger than me but still older than her started to fall into her eyes(thighsbreastssoftskinsmoothdarkhair). But he held himself back from the brink.
I think he did, but maybe he just failed to jump.
The best outcome for both of them regardless.
I don't think it's fair that girls can have that power over men. Yes men.
We might have resisted, but in a few years she'll be surrounded by those who wont. I worry about what will happen then.
I don't want her to get hurt. My brain tells me she will be.
Damnit brain.
I just hope she gets a boyfriend. So that she's safer from everyone else.
Here is the rule I go by: Two years. A guy should be no more than two years older than his lass. Why? Because a year is a huge gap. A year holds so many experiences, and when you're dating someone it helps to be of similar maturity. Maturity is brought on by experience. Any more than two years of experience difference, and it's like living in a whole different world. When people see things so differently, how are they supposed to forge an amazing relationship? I'm glad you're able to resist the beautiful younger girls. They're just as full of danger to you as you are to them.
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